"There's nothing for you, anymore. You burnt all your bridges, knowing always that it'd end like this. You quit your job and sold off everything, sent the family heirlooms back to your mom because you didn't want them to get lost in the move. And in a way, you weren't lying. A move from living to dying, a move from suffering to emptiness."
Not every character who has been Driven to Suicide does it on an impulse. Often it's a premeditated decision and oftentimes they start behaving differently prior to the suicide attempt. Researching and talking about suicide and/or death a lot is a pretty obvious-seeming sign, though other signs may be more subtle. They might go around talking to loved ones or they might start giving away their belongings, as a way of telling them goodbye. Alternatively, suicidal people may withdraw from others physically and emotionally. Giving a Despair Speech or simply alluding to a loss of hope is common. Abrupt personality changes are also frequently present; for example, they might be either unusually somber or, after a period of depression, might be unusually energetic and content (having come up with a concrete plan of action for how to resolve their unhappiness). Engaging in risky behavior such as dangerous driving, taking drugs, drinking to excess, unsafe sex, and so forth can be a sign too. Another physical sign is no longer taking care of one's appearance, such as not bathing/showering, not washing their hair, unkempt clothing, and so on (especially if they usually take pride in their appearance). Writing or recording a suicide note is often one of the last steps, though not in all cases.
There is Truth in Television in this trope. A common suicide prevention tip is to look for several signs that someone might attempt.
Secretly Dying characters also sometimes display the same characteristics as suicidal characters. If a character behaves this way and isn't suicidal, then they're often Mistaken for Suicidal. If other characters notice this behavior, they might put the character on Suicide Watch. Failing to notice the signs can result in characters feeling guilty, believing they could've prevented a tragic outcome. If characters do become aware of the signs, they may end up Talking Down the Suicidal.
See also Heroic BSoD and Despair Event Horizon, which sometimes overlap with this.
Examples:
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Anime and Manga
- Dear Brother: Fukiko gives away an important belonging, a doll, as foreshadowing of her suicide.
- Haibane Renmei: Days of Flight are treated similarly to someone suddenly dying or someone committing suicide. Reki almost failing to achieve her Day of Flight in the final episode is treated especially so. She says her "goodbyes" to everyone, detaches herself from her friends, and packs up all her belongings. There's also the scene, right before she asks Rakka for help, where a younger version of herself stands in front of imaginary railroad tracks. The series ends with her realizing that You Are Not Alone, which allows her to break out of her Circle of Sin and take her Day of Flight.
- The Summer You Were There: Shizuku, convinced that she can do nothing but hurt others, completes her "first and last story," deletes it from the internet and prepares to throw out the manuscript before killing herself. However, her classmate Kaori picks up the manuscript, reads it and takes steps to ensure Shizuku does not kill herself.
- Your Lie in April: Kaori is Secretly Dying and displays some signs, such as asking Kousei if he wants to commit double suicide (using a book quote). It's never specified how serious she is but it doesn't matter much as she dies only a few weeks afterwards.
Comic Books
- The Intimates: One issue focuses on Dead Kid Fred, a Robin expy who is stuck as a zombie as a result of Comic Book Death. Throughout the issue, he shows signs of being suicidal, but everyone ignores him until he tries to burn himself to death.
- Justice League: Dream Girls: Just before kicking Galaxy out of the dream realm, Dreamer keeps talking about how she thought when she blew up the Fortress of Solitude, everything would be over, but her life just kept going and now she's just tired and wants to sleep. Galaxy realizes that Dreamer does not intend to come back, and when she wakes up, her first words are screaming at Nia to come back, not realizing that she herself is back on the Watchtower.
Dreamer: I don't need dreams to see that you're going to help a lot of people. Just not me.Galaxy: Nia, stop! Don't do this!Dreamer: Please. Just let me sleep.
- The Order (2007): Becky Ryan was initially kept off the team because her background check revealed a string of self-destructive behaviors, including drug abuse and eating disorders, but she ended up making the cut after half of the initial team was kicked out for public drinking. After she pulls a very public attempt at a Heroic Sacrifice on her first mission, Henry pulls her aside and asks her point-blank if she was trying to kill herself.
Becky: Wouldn't all those psych tests I took have said something if I was suicidal?Henry: Maybe they did.Becky: (long pause and then a Stepford Smile) ... I'm fine, Henry.
- Runaways (Rainbow Rowell): Played With in an issue that sees Victor suffering from constant, worsening flashbacks to the time he killed his nephew. At the end of the issue, he's seen drawing a bath and tearing his own head off of its makeshift body and throwing it into the tub, which would seem like a suicide attempt, given that he's a cyborg. The next issue reveals that he was actually regenerating his original body.
- V for Vendetta: After the death of his lover Delia at the hands of V and his forced bereavement leave, Finch starts reading the works of Arthur Koestler and requisitions some lysergic acid from a pharmacist. When the drugs go missing and nobody can account for their (or Finch's) whereabouts, Finch's partner Dominic becomes worried enough that he consults Bunny Etheridge to see if he knows where Finch might have gone or what he would have used drugs for. Etheridge notes that Koestler was famous for his writings in favor of voluntary euthanasia. Luckily, Finch's LSD-induced suicide turns out to be merely symbolic, and he turns up mostly fine later on.
Fan Works
- Anachronism: After being sent back in time, Gloria bemoans that she missed the now-obvious signs that Sonia was depressed. Sonia's frequent Heroic Self-Deprecation isn't as digestible after learning what happens to her.
- Animal Crossing: In the Dark Fic one-shot Destroy Me, Please
, the unnamed protagonist sells their belongings, sends their more valuable family belongings to their parents, and sells their home because they're "moving away". Their ever-vigilant secretary Isabelle notices the signs and doesn't completely believe them when they say they aren't suicidal. Isabelle later visits the protagonist and interrupts their suicide attempt.
- The End of the World: An ambiguous example. Right before going on the hiking trip where he somehow fell off a cliff, Albinus Drake gave his victory Tour plaques to Brutus, and his record collection to Cinnamon Calabry (a minor District 2 victor). Drake had been depressed about the Games in the months before his death. Brutus seems to think it was suicide (and blames Haymitch for it), while Mags speculates that Drake was murdered by the Capitol for his Rebel sympathies, in which case his giving away stuff was because he expected to be murdered soon.
- Good, Old-Fashioned Values: During Jermaine's second semester of seventh grade, he starts struggling with suicidal thoughts because of all the bullying he continues to endure. He doesn't have a concrete plan for how he'll take his own life and merely goes around saying he wants to die. He also asks his classmates if they would miss him when he died, with many of them either giving him a non-answer or outright saying they wouldn't miss him. During ninth grade, he begins creating doodles and drawings of what he wants his gravestone to look like. He also makes sketches of himself dying by either falling off a cliff or getting strapped to a soon-to-explode hot water heater. Thankfully, the death artwork he creates is what finally convinces his family to begin taking his struggles seriously and getting him the help he needs.
- Maybe Then He'll Chill Again: This is why Vox got sent to the Hazbin Hotel in the first place. The Vees were worried he's suicidal after failing to take over Heaven and he acted like nothing's wrong. They were right to worry as Vox plans on redeeming himself by helping Husk and Cherri save Angel Dust from Valentino, which he hopes would get him killed or sent to Heaven.
- moral of the story (Nyame): The first scene shows the aftermath of Oliver and Laurel's confrontation in the hallway, Laurel's decision to kill herself, and her typing out her suicide note explaining her actions. It ends with her grabbing a bottle of pills, preparing herself to do the deed. The actual death itself isn't permanent due to the Lazarus Pit, but Laurel's decision nonetheless causes reverberations throughout the plot.
- My Immortal: In the infamous Harry Potter fanfiction, Ebony can apparently pick up on Draco Malfoy running "in a suicidal way".
- No One Sees Me, But Please Know I'm Right Here: After being systematically Bullied into Depression by Lila, Alya and several of her former friends, Marinette decides it would be better to kill herself than risk Hawkmoth akumatizing her in a Moment of Weakness. She takes the time to find a suitable successor and pass the Ladybug Earrings to them first, and also leaves behind all the evidence she was gathering of the bullying.
- Pokemon Light AU: Gloria's already volatile personality took a turn for the worse a few months before her suicide. She began isolating herself and pushing her loved ones away. Her last few voicemails to Hop, however, were soft and heartbroken.
- RWBY: Scars: Weiss has spent the last several weeks more-or-less isolated in her room. She rarely gets dressed and barely eats. Right before her suicide attempt, she decides to talk to her mother, brother, and favorite butler. This unusual behavior actually saves Weiss' life. Her normally distant mother decides to check up on her for once and finds her bleeding out on her bedroom floor. Willow's quick thinking leads to an Interrupted Suicide, which eventually leads to a Happily Failed Suicide.
- Super Life:
- Jermaine started struggling with suicidal thoughts during seventh grade because of the bullying he endured. At the time, he didn't have a plan for how to take his life. He merely went around saying he needed or wanted to kill himself and asked his classmates and friends if they would miss him. Unfortunately, his counselors and family thought he was just trying to get attention.
- He continued to struggle with suicidal thoughts for the rest of middle school and all throughout high school. By the time he enrolls at Metropolis High, he has a concrete plan for killing himself- cutting and stabbing himself to death with one of the large knives from his family's kitchen.
- At the beginning of "One Last Goodbye," his parents go away for the weekend and leave him home alone (the implication being they either don't know or don't care about his lingering suicidality). He decides this will be the time for him to kill himself. After he retrieves a knife from the kitchen and returns to his room, he realizes he wants to say goodbye to his friends (Helen and the Super Hero Girls) before killing himself. He texts them, with each text thanking the girls for being his friends and saying he loves them.
- Once he explains the reason for the texts to Babs and Karen, they and the rest of the Super Hero Girls realize the gravity of the situation and rush over to check on him. Upon arriving, the girls beg him to not kill himself, reiterate how much they care about and love him, say he's a good person, tell him how much they would miss him, say he deserves to live, and tell him they need him to live. He's moved to tears and decides not to kill himself.
- Jermaine started struggling with suicidal thoughts during seventh grade because of the bullying he endured. At the time, he didn't have a plan for how to take his life. He merely went around saying he needed or wanted to kill himself and asked his classmates and friends if they would miss him. Unfortunately, his counselors and family thought he was just trying to get attention.
Film — Live Action
- Aftersun: Implied Trope; it looks in retrospect like the entire holiday was an opportunity for Calum to spend some final quality time with his daughter and give her some happy memories of him.
- In Bruges: Throughout the film, hitman Ray has been extremely depressed and guilt-ridden about a hit gone wrong, and his mood has only gotten worse after being sent to Bruges, which he assumes is some sort of punishment for blowing the job. Towards the end of the film, he checks out of his hotel room early and tries to give the owner, a pregnant woman, all of his remaining cash, but she declines to accept it as she realizes it's probably everything he has left. When the owner tells Ray's partner Ken about this, he immediately rushes out to find Ray and finds him in a nearby park, about to shoot himself.
Ray: I went to the park so that she wouldn't have to clean up...
- Iron Man 2: Tony Stark begins to subtly go through the warning signs of suicide, he engages in risky behavior (untrained participation as a race car driver and getting drunk while operating heavy machinery — his suit), he's gregarious in front of the camera, but having trouble speaking to his friends, and he starts giving away personal possessions (donating his entire modern art collection to a Scouting program, giving his company to Pepper, and allowing Rhodes to take an earlier model suit in a destructive combat in his own home). Played with in that he's not actually suicidal; his medical equipment which he depends on for survival is also killing him, causing the same death-seeking and "last will" behaviors common to people with suicidal thoughts. The first one to notice in the movie is Nick Fury and they talk about it in a remote diner, starting him down the path to curing himself.
- The Perks of Being a Wallflower: Towards the end of the film, with his love interest Sam having left him to go off to college and after he's started suffering from disturbing memories of his late aunt, Charlie calls his sister Candace and starts rambling about how he thinks he might have killed his aunt before abruptly hanging up. An alarmed Candace immediately tells one of her friends to call the cops. Charlie wakes up in a hospital days later with no memory of what happened after he hung up on Candace, but it's pretty clear that he nearly killed himself.
- Varsity Blues: When Mox learns Billy Bob gave the Moxon Family his pet pig to take care of, he instantly and correctly sees this as a sign of Billy Bob getting ready to kill himself and races to (fortunately successfully) stop him. Even his probably drunk and angry parents immediately recognized the implication.
Literature
- The Belgariad: In the prequel novel Belgarath the Sorcerer, Belsambar falls into despondency in the years after the Cracking of the World and the wartime atrocities he'd witnessed. One evening, he talks to Belgarath about his lack of hope for the future, wishes Belgarath "goodbye" instead of "goodnight", goes home, and wills himself out of existence later that night.
- Choosing Death: Jermaine began having thoughts of suicide during seventh grade mostly because he was still getting bullied. He didn't have a plan and just went around school saying he wanted to die by suicide every other day. He started asking his friends if they'd miss him when he died. He wrote lists of reasons why he should and die and showed them to others. He made doodles of how he'd die. During ninth grade, he drew his grave and wrote a That's All, Folks! epitaph on it. He showed his friend Chelsea, who grew concerned. About halfway through tenth grade, he wrote plans for his funeral and burial, but he didn't (and still doesn't) know why. He showed them to his friends, who were confused and worried. He junked the plans near the end of the school year.
- Les Misérables: Inspector Javert stands over a dangerous stretch of the River Seine while he struggles with the impossible contradiction of owing his life to a criminal he'd sworn to arrest. He then goes to the nearest station-house, writes a few suggestions to improve the police service, returns to the Seine, and throws himself in.
- The Wolf Den Trilogy: Cressa drinks her savings and starts looking haggard in the months leading up to her suicide. Her final request is that her friends be nicer to Britannica.
Live-Action TV
- Battlestar Galactica (2003): As the fleet hits an all-time low, Dualla, who'd been struggling to keep it together for a while now, seems to be actually getting better. She smiles more, is pleasant and even upbeat around her comrades, and even rekindles her relationship with Apollo, stating she just wants to forget about all the horrible things that have happened and have one, perfect day. After their date, she shoots herself in the head. A sudden change from depression to contentment and wanting "one perfect day" can be a fairly clear sign that the person in question intends it to be their last day.
- Community: The episode "Advanced Dungeons and Dragons" has Jeff notice that classmate Neil (a frequent bullying victim) is showing signs of suicidal thoughts. He brings it up with the rest of the study group and they organize a game of Dungeons & Dragons (of which he's an avid player) to cheer him up.
- Crazy Ex-Girlfriend: In season 3, Rebecca becomes extremely depressed after reacting badly to Josh leaving her at the altar and spends a few weeks lazing around at her mother's house, doing very little except constantly looking at something on her laptop. Eventually, her mom becomes curious and peeks, finding her on a page titled 'least painful ways to die'. Though she is usually very thoughtless when it comes to Rebecca's feelings, this shocks her into genuine concern for her.
- Father Ted: In the series finale, "Going To America", after Ted's immigration to America is called off, Dougal celebrates that they'll be staying together in Craggy Island forever and ever, with Ted responding with a mortified Thousand-Yard Stare. In the original edit, this would have culminated in a Brick Joke with Ted joining the suicidal priest earlier in the episode on a window ledge. However, the writers' dislike for the Black Comedy ending (possibly combined with Ted's actor Dermot Morgan passing away after filming the episode) led to it being revised into a more upbeat montage sequence with Ted and Dougal heard jovially saying goodnight to each other as a closeout.
- The Golden Girls: In "Not Another Monday", Sophia's friend Martha demonstrates some subtle signs just before she tells Sophia she wants to kill herself. She has a completely upbeat attitude compared to the previous day mourning over losing her best friend (medical studies indicate a sudden, positive change in mood compared to a previously depressive state can mean one has come to terms/peace of mind with dying), treats Sophia to an expensive meal while asking her for a big favor, and talks about how there won't be any more birthdays. Additionally, on the planned night, she buys a 10-carat ring and gifts it to Sophia as a thank-you gift for coming over so she won't die alone.
- House: Kutner is normally very, very overeager with the Magical Defibrillator, so the first time he finally uses one without any mishaps comes as a shock. He shoots himself the very next episode, and nobody ever finds out why.
- Life in Pieces: A Christmas Episode had Joan counselling a neighbor whose wife had died. She tries to tell him the warning signs of suicide... while failing to notice those same signs apply to the Short family's robot vacuum (a Roomba copy). Eventually, she admits she feels she's missed a sign... just before the vacuum throws itself down the stairs and smashes itself to pieces.
- Orphan Black: The fourth season premiere is a Whole Episode Flashback to the events that led up to Beth's suicide. Played With when it's revealed that Beth had no genuine desire to kill herself; she was blackmailed into it by Evie Cho. A lot of her outwardly strange behavior was due to her involvement in the clone conspiracy. After her death everyone misinterpreted her words and actions, assuming they were signs of suicidality when they actually weren't.
- Remington Steele: One of the biggest clues that the case in "In the Steele of the Night" is Suicide, Not Murder is that the victim has lots of dog food but no dog. Laura realizes he must have recently given away the dog he would no longer be able to care for.
Music
- Bowling for Soup: "Goodbye Friend", which is heavily implied to be about a friend committing suicide, brings up how said friend went around telling everybody goodbye and made it clear that he and the singer were on good terms. The friend was also noticeably feeling down, making the singer desperately wish he had done more to help him back then.
Video Games
- Life is Strange: There are several warning signs that Kate is suicidal early on, including her doodling pictures of nooses in her notebook and sitting in the dark in her room, Max mentioning that she's stopped playing the violin and the school's paranoid head of security noticing she's been acting strangely. She makes an attempt at the end of Episode 2; whether she survives is up to whether the player can have Max talk her down.
- Lobotomy Corporation: The story of the Bloodbath Abnormality includes a vivid description of the friend/partner of the person Driven to Suicide regretting they never noticed her increasing suicidal tendencies. It originates from Ayin's trauma of finding out Carmen slit her wrists in a bathtub.
Visual Novels
- Doki Doki Literature Club!: After spending several in-game days being rather cheerful and ditzy, Sayori suddenly starts acting strangely and even leaves the club early one day. The player then learns she has depression and promises to help her, only for her to not show up to the Club Festival, leaving only a note that demands someone to "get out of her head" repeatedly. When the player checks on her, they find that she hanged herself.
- Katawa Shoujo: The usually upbeat and loud Misha becomes more withdrawn throughout Shizune's arc. It's heavily implied she's suicidal and depressed, especially over her unrequited feelings for Shizune resurfacing because the protagonist is dating Shizune. This trope is even more pronounced in an earlier incarnation of her arc, which did end in her Driven to Suicide, where her depression is given more focus. Right before she kills herself, she goes shopping with her best friend and crush Shizune.
Web Original
- Dream SMP: During the Exile arc, Tommy starts talking to himself and later to Dream about how he doesn't think he has much time left, engages in openly dangerous behavior and occasional Self-Harm, and makes an effort to do things he'd always wanted to do like writing "How To Sex 3" and hanging out with Drista again. He attempts suicide after Dream destroys Logstedshire, but winds up running away instead after realizing Dream was never his friend.
- In 2018, Facebook created an algorithm that detects possible suicide notes from the social network in messages that contain words like "kill", "die" and "goodbye", making tender messages for the user, as well make a call to their friends. More information about this can be found here and here.
Western Animation
- BoJack Horseman: In the penultimate episode, "The View From Halfway Down", BoJack had been driven to suicide and nearly drowned himself in his own pool. He recovers in time for the finale and meets Diane again, who revealed that BoJack had left her a voicemail prior where he (who is typically The Eeyore even when he's drunk and high) sounded "happy" and wanted to "go swimming", to which she instantly knew meant that he was going to kill himself and once again burdened her with the responsibility of his actions.
- Miraculous Ladybug:
- Played With in "Daddycop", where Sabrina shows obvious signs of depression and has been throwing up a bunch of red flags ever since the expulsion of her "best friend" Chloe - she's been throwing away her belongings, has stopped talking to her dad, spends an inordinate amount of time doomscrolling on social media, and keeps talking about "leaving school". However, before she's able to actually hurt herself, she gets hit with an akuma in front of her classmates, alerting them to the fact that she's not okay, and they're quick to offer her their support. On the other hand, before she gets hit with the akuma, she manages to leave a message for her dad crying about how there's no place for her anywhere, and he is panicked enough to get akumatized. After the whole mess is sorted out, Marinette chides herself for having missed a number of signs that something was wrong and resolves to pay more attention to Sabrina going forward (a later episode sees her stepping in when she sees Sabrina doomscrolling again.)
- In "Vampigami", Juleka begins to fear that her girlfriend Rose is planning to leave her. While she isn't about to hurt herself just yet, during a phone call with her brother Luka, she blows up at him for moving away and begins talking frankly about her relationship anxieties with him. Luka gets worried enough by this that he immediately calls up Rose and tells her to go check on Juleka. This is more notable because a previous episode "Guiltrip" was heavily implicit that Juleka experienced suicidal levels of depression.