Sometimes, in life, people are expected or forced to do things they'd rather not do. From a kid being forced to clean their room to someone being pressured into a life-altering decision, there's not always an easy way to escape. So, in these cases, a character with a more defiant nature will go along with what's being asked of them...but they will not make it easy on everyone else. In some cases, it's an effort to avoid sharing in the blame for someone else's decisions.
Technically, they won't be doing anything wrong. They're following orders, and in many cases, won't even be looking for a loophole to exploit or a rule to bend. They're doing what's asked, and doing it well enough that nobody can accuse them of failing (though they may be accused of half-assing it). It's just that they're doing it unwillingly — and this will be made obvious to everyone else. They'll be sulky, moody, or outright angry. They'll do what they need to, but they'll complain and moan all the way, and if they can't do that, they'll give out a Death Glare and a scowl. In other words, it's a small act of rebellion that doesn't actually involve rebelling — they're simply letting everyone know how they truly feel because it's the best they can do.
It doesn't matter what the task is. It could be as small as being asked to do something they find stupid or embarrassing, or as major as doing something life-altering, dangerous, or morally wrong. It may not even be anything all that bad or harmful; it just has to be anything the character is very unwilling to do, but something that they can't really get out of. The source of the request doesn't matter as much as the result; whether they're obeying out of necessity, out of coercion, out of loyalty, or even simply because no actual option exists in the first place, the character themselves needs to know or believe that they can't just refuse it — otherwise, why whine about it?
The way their true emotions are expressed will depend on the character. Some will stick to snarky or backhanded comments that make their true stance all too clear. Others will be more obvious, such as with rants or angry body language. What matters less is how they show it, and more that they don't make an effort to hide their displeasure at all; at best, they'll lack any enthusiasm and, at worst, will be genuinely and obviously pissed. The key is that they're doing all of this while obeying, or at least during the bits the audience sees; if they complain in advance, but then shut up and do their task quietly, it doesn't count. And, of course, if they rebel outright, it doesn't count either. The character should be making an active effort to show their displeasure as they're going along with it, however it manifests.
How this characterizes the complainer can vary, depending on the severity of the request, the amount of freedom they have, and whether or not we're supposed to sympathize with them. At one end, you have a character acting like a spoiled child, throwing a tantrum and making a stink out of something that isn't even a big deal. At the other end, you have a character who's been pushed around making any effort they can to stand up for themselves. This is very often Played for Laughs, because the character can come off looking like a petulant whiner, or will otherwise be giving comical reactions to a situation that isn't portrayed as serious or bad. In dramatic examples, the request will often be more dire, and thus the character becomes more sympathetic. In all scenarios though, it conveys important information about how the character feels about what it is they're doing; it's a strong dislike, enough to forgo social norms and openly complain — if nothing else, it means that they're passionate and unhappy, and unwilling to just shut up and take it.
Compare Zeroth Law Rebellion, in which someone with no free will technically follows orders but does so through loopholes and rule-bending; the Servile Snarker, who is less grouchy and more deadpan; Upset At Obedience; when someone gets mad that someone did what they explicitly asked but implicitly did not want; and Bothering by the Book, when they go one step further and "obey" their employer but in a way that screws the latter over. See also Exact Words, for when the character gives in to the request as described, not as intended. Do not confuse for Rule-Abiding Rebel, which is when a "rebellious" character still abides by societal norms and rules, and does so willingly. Contrast an Extreme Doormat, who is more likely to hold their tongue and passively put up with demands. Compare and contrast It's Not About the Request, in which someone refuses a request, not because they disagree with it, but because they dislike the way they were asked, and Resign in Protest, when someone outright leaves their job or group thanks to a disagreement. This often overlaps with Ordered Apology, as the apology attempt often ends up being obviously unapologetic.
Compare Sour Supporter and Sarcastic Devotee.
Examples:
- Bill Cosby's "Chocolate Cake" routine has his wife force him out of bed to make breakfast for their children. He describes being in the kitchen, slamming pots and pans down, and various other things until he gets to the eggs... at which point he pauses saying "You have to be careful with eggs", and pantomimes setting them down gently. He resumes slamming things around, setting up the kitchen to make breakfast, when his youngest child would offer up a suggestion that didn't involve him having to cook anything...to the irritation and consternation of his wife, as the item chosen was chocolate cake.
- Calvin and Hobbes: Whenever Calvin is being forced to do something he doesn't want to, he'll make sure everyone knows it and by God he'll make sure it's a miserable experience for everyone.
- Alicorn:
- Rainbow Dash agrees to move to Canterlot on her aunt Luna's request (with some further encouragement from Twilight), but makes it clear she hates the city, hates the royal guard, hates the castle staff, and everything else about moving.
- When the royal physician asks her to open her mouth so he can inspect her throat, Rainbow initially refuses but complies when he asks again - though throws out a few curse words while doing so.
- In Platinum Pirate, Lucas quickly befriends the Marines at G-4 thanks to his previous exploits in Alabasta while earning the respect of Vice-Admiral Gion for his bravery and skill at commanding his Pokémon. So none of the Marines are happy when "Saint" Rhode orders them to capture Gardevoir so he can keep her as a Sex Slave. But given that the orders are coming from a Celestial Dragon, they have no choice but to comply. The narration makes it clear that they're scowling the whole time and are Bothering by the Book to give Lucas the best chance of escaping.
- Finding Nemo: During the start of the movie, Nemo is told by his father that he's not allowed to go on an expedition trip with his schoolmates. Incensed by this, Nemo swims far away despite his father ordering him to turn back; when he approaches a human boat, he touches it with one of his fins just to piss off his father. Knowing that he'll be grounded, he obeys his father's order to return to him with an angry face, but in the process, a human who is diving underwater seizes him.
- The Lorax (2012): When the Once-ler tries to get the Lorax off his back by offering him a marshmallow, the Lorax doesn't want to kowtow to him (not to mention he's offended by the Once-ler making Baby Talk to him while offering the marshmallow) but has such a Sweet Tooth that he gives in. He yells, "I'm gonna eat this, but I'm highly offended by it!".
- Zigzagged in Tarzan (1999). After Kerchak sternly orders Tarzan to protect the family and stay away from the human visitors, the ape man angrily obeys part of his request - hanging out with the other humans while keeping the gorillas hidden. His feelings for Jane eventually lead him to defy Kerchak completely.
- Margin Call: Sam (played by Kevin Spacey) is not happy at all about being ordered to dump worthless holdings on unwitting investors and is also very vocal and adamant about letting his bosses know it. He does go along, however, as it's the only way to save the company and he desperately needs the money because he's just gone through an expensive divorce.
- Rocketman (2019):
- Deconstructed. When John forces Elton to come out to his mother, he's terrified about how she'll react, and initially protests. John is apathetic to his feelings, only really caring about how these things will impact Elton's career. As a result, when he proceeds to be mocked for sulking about it on the way to a concert, Elton snaps, shouts for the car to be stopped, and storms out to talk to her immediately. When John tries to remind him about the concert, he shouts back about how he'll be busy breaking his mother's heart. Even while doing the call, he's impatient and tense, and his coming-out speech is delivered rather defensively. However, this rebellion doesn't help him; he's accosted by a furious John minutes later, who even ends up hitting him in the face for prioritizing his feelings over the show. He's dragged off for the concert and retreats into the Stepford Smiler act that would become his default.
- A more comedic take happens later. Elton, already angry about John cheating on him, must immediately go and host a house party before he's been able to cool down. His first guests are his parents, who brought their neighbors along. It's very difficult for him to pretend to be enjoying their presence, and his frustration becomes even more obvious when he's made to give a house tour — his tone is deeply unenthusiastic and irritated as he agrees and realizes that it's happening immediately.
- Andy Griffiths' Just Series: In "Just Disgusting", the story "Brussel Sprouts" has Andy's mother serve up Brussel sprouts, which Andy hates. While he manages to avoid eating four out of the five he was given (feeding one to Sooty the dog, putting one on his sister Jen's plate, putting one in his pocket after faking sneezing, and putting one down his pants), he is cornered into actually eating the fifth. He grimaces and forces himself not to think about eating the sprout while he eats it.
- Commodore Hornblower: Hornblower orders Bush to send boat with a boarding party to a ship flying the yellow Q-flag and claiming it's because of smallpox. Hornblower is betting that it's a bluff (it is), while Bush has been taken in. "Sir - she has smallpox on board - sir! Aye aye, sir."
- Discworld:
- An Igor will never directly object to an order given by their marthter or mithtreth, as that's against their code, but if they disapprove they will damn well get passive-aggressive about it.
- In Night Watch, when Vimes lays down the law on the slobby bunch of rejects and over-the-borderline criminals that is the Night Watch of the past, he notices a sudden upkick in "Obeying Orders to the Letter, With Gleeful Malignancy".
- Harry Dresden of The Dresden Files ends up becoming the Winter Knight, subject to the orders of Queen Mab. Given that he's worried about the type of man he could become with such orders (especially after seeing some of the stuff the previous office holder got up to), Harry tells Mab to her face that she could give him orders, but it's up to him how they get done... otherwise he'll make sure she's tied up micromanaging everything he does. Given she wants an independent thinker (especially since one of his duties is determining if she's ever in danger of going too far off the deep end in anything, or slacking off in her duties), Mab doesn't mind.
- The Famous Five: In Five Go Adventuring Again, George despises her tutor Mr Roland, because he keeps calling her Georgina, and he doesn't like her dog Timmy. When Timmy is under the table during lessons, he bites Mr Roland, who orders George to take him out. Knowing that if she refuses, her father will order Timmy to live in the garden kennel, she obeys but is extremely rude about it.
Mr Roland: Take him out, Georgina.
[George does not move]
Julian: She won't answer if you call her Georgina.
Mr Roland: She'll answer me whatever I call her. If you don't take that dog out this very minute, Georgina, I will go to your father.
George: [realising she has no choice but to obey] Come on Tim, I'm not surprised you bit him. I would too, if I were a dog. - Harry Potter: Kreacher loathes Sirius Black, seeing him as a traitor to the Black family, but as he's the family's house elf and Sirius is still a member of the family, he's bound to obey Sirius' orders no matter how much he hates having to do so. When ownership of Kreacher passes to Harry in Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince, he's equally furious at having to obey Harry's orders; Harry's first order is for the ranting Kreacher to "shut up", and while Kreacher obeys, he stares daggers at Harry for the rest of the scene. In general, Harry has to word his orders very carefully to avoid inviting Loophole Abuse, and Kreacher will follow his orders furiously if this happens.
- The Raven Cycle: Ronan does this pretty well every time he's obliged to do anything. For instance, when the gang are exploring a dark cave with no way to measure the distance they've travelled, Gansey suggests they should sing or whistle a song with a regular meter and count the repetitions - and nominates Ronan to do it, as Ronan learned a lot of long Irish songs when he was younger, to please his father. The others find this hilarious as it doesn't fit Ronan's carefully cultivated tough-guy image. Ronan sings the Murder Squash Song instead - in-universe, the most annoying song there is.
- A Song of Ice and Fire: In Fire & Blood, King Maegor I Targaryen is without a living heir and forces three women to marry him after murdering their husbands, including his own niece Rhaena Targaryen. She hides her two young daughters from him, but his spymaster Tyanna of the Tower manages to sniff them out and brings them to the wedding to ensure her cooperation. She speaks her wedding vows in "a voice as cold as ice.
- The Brittas Empire: In "Brussels Calling", Tim is told by Laura to don the mantle of Mr. Jolly to entertain the children at a birthday. Although he tries refusing it, knowing how bad he is with children, he eventually obeys, although he does it scowling all the way, angrily and inappropriately listing all the ways Weil's Disease could cripple someone when a child asks why he can't use the pool, and eventually starts outright shouting at the party to be quiet. The birthday boy seems to have picked up on Tim's attitude towards his role, as he tells Tim that he wasn't as fun as the previous Mr. Jolly.
- Fawlty Towers: Basil is constantly nagged and ordered about by his wife Sybil, especially when she barks "Basil!" at him; he usually does as he is told, extremely grudgingly. At the beginning of the first episode "A Touch of Class", he shows his frustration when she micromanages him.
Sybil: Basil!
Basil: Yes, dear?
Sybil: Are you going to hang the picture?
Basil: Yes.
Sybil: When?
Basil: When I've... when I've...
Sybil: Why don't you do it now?
Basil: I'm doing this dear, I'm doing the menu.
Sybil: You've got all morning to do the menu, why don't you hang the picture now?... Well?
Basil: [leaping up, and speaking really quickly] Yes, all right, I'll hang the picture now. I don't know if you know how long it takes to do the menu, but nooooooo, it doesn't matter, I'll hang the picture now. If the menus are late for lunch, the guests can all come and look at the picture until they are ready, right? [holds picture against the wall]
Sybil: Lower.
[Basil closes his eyes in agony, and lowers the picture]
Sybil: Lower... up a bit. There.
Basil: Thank you, dear, I don't know where I'd be without you. In the land of the living, probably. - Fraggle Rock: In "The Challenge", when Pa orders him to pick pumpkins, Junior starts to do so, but not without complaint.
Junior: Ohhh, pumpkins and parsnips. Hoeing and watering. Planting and harvesting. It's tough work being a prince!
- House of Anubis: When Mara wants Mick to break up with her and go to Australia with his family, she ropes Patricia into her schemes, in part because Patricia inadvertently inspired these antics in the first place. One attempt involves embarrassing him by performing a dorky cheerleading routine in public, and she makes Patricia join as backup. Mick finds the whole thing cute, so Patricia is ultimately the only one feeling humiliated by it and is clearly miserable, growing angrier and less patient as the cheer goes on, even rushing the ending.
- Sesame Street:
- In one skit, Ernie asks Bert to sing "Rubber Duckie" to his (Ernie's) rubber duckie. Bert complies, but he doesn't put much emotion into his singing, and he frequently complains that the request is ridiculous.
- In one episode, Frazzle is bothering Maria by asking her to read the same book over and over. At one point, she does, but in a grumpy voice.
- In the "Abby's Flying Fairy School" skit "Sleeping Bloggy", Blogg gets put into a Forced Sleep after biting into the poisoned apple Abby brought for show and tell. When Abby realises that Snow White woke up when she was kissed, she decides someone has to kiss Blogg, which disgusts everyone. She reluctantly does so because she brought the apple, but it doesn't work. When they decide the kisser has to be a prince and turn Gonnigan into one, he also kisses Blogg but makes it clear that he's unhappy with it.
- Star Trek:
- In the Star Trek: The Original Series episode "The Doomsday Machine" Spock relieves Commodore Decker of command of the Enterprise despite the fact that neither he nor Captain Kirk - who ordered Spock to relieve Decker - are on solid legal grounds to do so. At first Decker is resistant and Spock responds that if the Enterprise survived to reach a starbase he could file a formal protest with Starfleet command then. Decker finally agrees to step down when it's made clear the Enterprise crew would back Spock and Captain Kirk over Decker. The possibility of a formal protest being filed by Decker is rendered moot when Decker takes his own life a short time later.
- Star Trek: The Next Generation: In the episode “The Pegasus” Captain Picard agrees to take the Enterprise inside an asteroid at the insistence of Admiral Pressman, but asks Data to note in the ship’s log that the action was being taken over his objections as the ship’s Captain.
Picard: Mr. Data, will you please note in the ship's log that this action is being taken over my explicit objection.
Data: It is so noted, sir. - Star Trek: Deep Space Nine: In "In The Pale Moonlight," Sisko orders Dr. Bashir to provide him with a large quantity of a dangerous controlled substance, which he needs for some top-secret machinations. Dr. Bashir has no choice but to comply, but demands the order in writing and informs Sisko he will be filing a written protest with Starfleet Medical. (It's a testament to how desperate things have gotten that Sisko accepts this paper trail despite the clear need for secrecy. Fortunately for the Federation and Sisko, Bashir's written protest is never mentioned again.)
- Worzel Gummidge: In "Worzel's Birthday", Worzel is jealous because a new sentient scarecrow, Saggy Tatersack, has just been created on Worzel's "birthday". As such, when the Crow Man tells Worzel to wish Saggy happy birthday, he does so but in a grouchy voice.
- 1776: In the final act, right after Edward Rutledge leads the entire South in a walk-out on the eve of the final vote to adopt the resolution on American independence, John Adams turns to the dispirited remnant and begins trying to salvage the situation. The first thing he does is send Col. Thomas McKean to retrieve Caesar Rodney, who had earlier gone home suffering from cancer. McKean protests that it's eighty miles and he's a dying man, but Adams counters that he's a patriot and he would want to be here. And even if the South does come back around, they still need Delaware and they can't get it without Rodney. McKean complies, grumbling as he leaves, "What a bastardly bunch we are."
- BitLife: One of the random pop-ups you can get involves your parents offering to take you on vacations. One of the options lets you Take a Third Option between going happily and staying home alone, which is that you can "complain, but go", invoking the scenario of a kid being dragged along on a lame family trip and being a brat about it.
- In Final Fantasy XIV, Zereel Ja is flabbergasted when Wuk Lamat and her companions complete the Feat of Brotherhood, as he only intended for Bakool Ja Ja to complete it. He tries to come up with a pretense to disqualify her before Tankwa shows up to demand Zereel Ja honor the rules of the contest as per the word of the Dawnservant. Zereel Ja begrudgingly agrees and hands over the keystone as promised. His words make it clear that part of his reluctance is rooted in guilt, as admitting defeat means that the hundreds of stillbirths that Mamook suffered through to produce more blessed siblings were for naught.
- Honkai: Star Rail: In this case, it's less "obeying" and more "fulfilling a promise", but Bailu promises the dying Banxia to cure her lover Liangmu's illness. The problem is, Bailu and the Trailblazer finds out that Liangmu only got close to Banxia to learn secrets of immortality from the cult she was in, and he showed no concern over her death, which irritates Bailu; she still views said promise as important, so she still heals Liangmu while making her rage clear. However, you (as the Trailblazer) also have the option to ask Bailu to rough him up first, which Bailu will gladly join in before she cures him. And even then, after he leaves, Bailu tells the Trailblazer that she also gave him uncontrollable hiccups for 30 years.
- Girl Genius: For a diplomatic meeting with some Fish People, Agatha has to wear
an artificial mermaid tail in a Mobile Fish Bowl vehicle (It Makes Sense in Context). However she has to order the mad scientists who built it to remove
all the Hidden Weapons first, which they do while protesting petulantly.
- Blixemi: In "What You Cannot See", Jaypaw is surrounded by his family, who won't stop annoying him with their Innocently Insensitive comments, endless criticisms, and their overzealous attempts to help him, which he finds very grating, especially since he's desperate to prove that his blindness won't hold him back from his dreams. One of the main things that gets on his nerves is their attempts to push him into medicine cat work and away from warrior training, despite that being a warrior is his dream, something they dismiss as being "unrealistic". In the end, he laments that his "paws are tied" and that he's not getting a say in how his life turns out. Recognizing that there's no way out of it, he instead resolves to prove everyone wrong, and is rather clear that he's only doing it because he apparently has to.
- Babar: In one episode, Alexander is telling Isabelle a story, and she demands that he make the villains bunnies. He reluctantly agrees to make them bunnies but makes it clear that he doesn't like it.
- Bluey (2018):
- In "Mini Bluey", when the Heeler sisters are putting the lawn clippings into the wheelbarrow and Bingo is trying to emulate Bluey, Bluey reveals that when she does chores, she does them slowly and whines about them.
- In "Dad Baby", Bingo asks Bandit to pretend to be pregnant with her. He finds the game embarrassing and annoying, regularly complaining about it, but goes along with it for her sake.
- Bob's Burgers: In "Bad Tina", Linda wants Bob to go with her to the Wharf Arts Center to see the group Cake, a patty-cake dance troupe. Bob reluctantly agrees, but says he'll just complain the whole time. However, when he actually sees the performance, he becomes obsessed with it.
- Clifford the Big Red Dog: In "The Big Sleepover", Clifford finds himself unable to sleep due to missing Emily Elizabeth (since this is the first time the entire Howard family has stayed the night away from him). The townspeople get Woken Up at an Ungodly Hour by his howling, so they try different ways of lulling him to sleep. When Mrs. Bleakman suggests Mr. Bleakman sing to Clifford, he is none too pleased, but reluctantly does it.
- Futurama: In "Fear of a Bot Planet", Bender - already chafing at humanity's treatment of robots - refuses to make a delivery that none of the rest of the crew can perform due to hostile natives. Only after Hermes points out that he's used up all his vacation days does he relent, and even then he remains furious at his colleagues for most of the episode.
Bender: All right, I'll go. But so help me, I'll hold a grudge against every last one of you for the rest of your lives!
- Harry and His Bucket Full of Dinosaurs: In "Hail the Queen", while Patsy is being a pseudo-Ancient Egyptian queen, the rest of the dinosaurs suggest Trike dress as a belly dancer. He does, but says a Big "NO!" beforehand and frowns while doing so.
- The Real Ghostbusters: In the "Slimer" short "Tea, but Not Sympathy", Janine demands Slimer apologise to Manx for attacking him, because Manx was pretending to be injured to gain sympathy and Janine fell for it but not Slimer. Slimer complies so as not to get in trouble, but still scowls and talks grumpily.
- Treehouse of Horror: In "The Isle of Dr. Hibbert", Ned gets turned into a centaur-like beast with a cow's body. When he asks Homer to milk him as his udder is sore from milk buildup, Homer initially refuses but then grudgingly does it.
- In an episode of What's with Andy?, Andy is sent back to kindergarten for the day as a punishment. He is asked to read to the kindergarten students, and he does, but in a ticked-off voice, because he's disgruntled with the whole situation. One of the kids berates him for "sounding funny".
- On The Bridge of a US Navy ship, if a subordinate (often but not always The Navigator) disagrees with the orders or actions of a superior (usually but not always The Captain) but is being overridden, they may order the Quartermaster of the Watch to record their recommendations or objections in the deck log. The log is a legal record of everything that happens aboard, and the implication is the subordinate believes that the superior's orders will cause some disaster to befall the ship and they want to be able to prove to the subsequent board of inquiry that they tried to do the right thing but were ordered not to. In some cases, a trusted subordinate doing this may be enough to shock the superior into reconsidering. Off the bridge, this might take the form of asking for an order in writing. On ships equipped with a Voyage Data Recorder (VDR) instead of a paper log, this might take the form of talking loud enough to be picked up by the microphones and saying "for the VDR, I recommend..." so that the superior can also be recorded ignoring them. In any event, if they are overridden, the subordinate will do what is ordered, however grudgingly. Doing this is a professional risk, particularly if the subordinate turns out to be wrong, because it is possible to greatly irritate the superior, but has just as often prevented disaster or saved the career of one or both parties.
- In more organized sports leagues such as the pros, if one side feels that a rule was applied incorrectly for the contest and it is a pivotal one, they may tell the officials that they are playing the game under protest from that point forward— that is, they'll play as though the ruling is correct for now, but intend to notify the league office afterwards and ask them to review it. The intent is that when the league decides on the matter afterwards, the game's results can either be accepted as it was played if the league decides the officials at the match applied the rules correctly (so that teams' schedules aren't too heavily impacted with an unnecessary makeup), or the game can be replayed from the point of the protest if the league decides the officials at the game made a major mistake. This is one step less drastic than the protesting team refusing to play further at all and forcing either a forfeit or a match cancellation at that moment.
