You have a character with a serious addiction — be it drugs, alcohol, gambling, or whatever lights up the pleasure center in their brain. Their friends try to convince them that they have a problem, but their protests fall on deaf ears; the addict may rebuff them with "I can quit whenever I want!"
They may, however, reach a point where their problem becomes impossible to ignore or deny. This may be the result of Staging an Intervention, or they may get a good look at themselves in the mirror, or they may hit rock bottom and cross a line they never thought they'd cross. Whatever the case is, this is the point where the addict admits — either out loud or to themselves — that they have a problem. In some stories, this may mark the turning point where the addict resolves to get their life back on track. This can also overlap with Heel Realization or What Have I Become?, if the character catches themself doing something heinous while Fiending for a Fix.
Admitting that one's addiction is out of control is traditionally the first step in a 12-step recovery program. Hopefully the addict's Character Arc will conclude in them becoming a Recovered Addict.
See also Descent into Addiction, which precedes this moment. Contrast Functional Addict, who is probably still in denial.
Examples:
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Comic Books
- Batman:
- In the Batman: Legends of the Dark Knight storyline "Venom", Batman ends up becoming addicted to the titular steroid after a case ends with a young girl drowning because he wasn't strong enough to get to her. He becomes so addicted that he's willing to try and kill Commissioner Gordon at the command of the drug's creator, and when Batman tries to capture the creator instead, he lets him go when the man tosses a bag of the pills at his feet. It's at this point that Batman realizes he's really messed up and calls Alfred for help.
- In one famous incident, Riddler is captured by Batman. However, on this occasion, he's genuinely horrified: he bluntly tells Batman that he had honestly and earnestly tried not to leave behind any clues so as to avoid capture, and yet he had left some anyway, seemingly subconsciously. He states that he intends to actually stay in Arkham Asylum this time to try to overcome his Complexity Addiction.
- Iron Man: Tony Stark has dealt with this twice with his alcoholism. In the iconic Demon in a Bottle storyline, a series of bad incidents leads to Tony constantly running to the bottle before he's convinced that all he's doing is destroying himself, and forces himself to try and sober up. It doesn't stick until Obadiah Stane's plots completely wreck Tony and leave him with nothing, wandering the streets during a freak snowstorm, protecting a newborn baby. It's at this point that Tony vows to get himself sober, a state he's mostly stuck to.
Fan Works
- Ed, Edd n Eddy: The Teen Series: In the chapter "Peeping Ed", after trying to deny it for the past stories, Paul finally admits he has a sex addiction and recognizes how it affects himself, his family, and the women around him. Afterwards, Ed, Double D, and Eddy help him overcome his Extreme Libido with some exercises to reduce it.
- The Fearless Moral Inventory of Milhouse Van Houten: When an adult Milhouse ends up crashing his car drunk on his birthday, he realises he's an alcoholic.
- My Immortal: After Ebony travels in time for the first time, she finds Professor Trevolry drinking some Voldemortserum (probably meant to be "Veritaserum"). This chapter ends with a cliffhanger as Trevolry declares, "I think I'm addicted to Voldemortserum".
Film — Live-Action
- Boogie Nights: Dirk has his moment of clarity at Rahad Jackson's house. Dirk, Reed and Todd have went to the erratic coke dealer's place to sell him baking soda as cocaine as a pretext for Todd to try rob him, but as Rahad keeps going back to freebase more cocaine, a weird silent Chinese boy tosses around fire crackers at random intervals, Rahad's bodyguard has a gun peeking from under his shirt and "Jessie's Girl" blares from the stereos at high volume, Dirk sits at the table giving a Kubrick Stare at the wall. After the attempted robbery goes haywire and Dirk escapes, we don't see him do drugs again.
- The Dirt: After quite literally being pronounced dead from a heroin overdose for two minutes and miraculously coming back to life after taking two shots of adrenaline to the heart, Mötley Crüe bassist Nikki Sixx realized that he's finally hit rock bottom. After returning home note , he vows it's time to get clean... and then proceeds to shoot up more heroin in his closet.
Nikki Sixx: I couldn't face that I was one of the luckiest guys on the planet. I had so many reasons to live. I don't need the drugs. Fuck the drugs. It's time to get clean.
[cut to Nikki passed out in his closet, with a heroin needle in his arm]
Nikki Sixx: That's why I told myself... After I shot up again. - My Name Is Joe: The eponymous protagonist is a recovering alcoholic who stopped drinking after beating his girlfriend while seeking the keys to his home, both being drunk.
- Rocketman (2019):
- Implied with Bernie; while his addiction is never outright addressed, he's shown heavily drinking in several scenes and seems interested in the idea of a traditional Sex, Drugs, and Rock & Roll lifestyle. We see him respond to Elton's rudeness in one scene by suggesting he and the women he's with go drink, despite already acting drunk. Then Elton tries to drown himself after, and Bernie is horrified, silent and shaking. The next time we see him, he's on the jet with Elton after a concert and is acting much differently, quietly suggesting they both take a break from the industry to go home and just write music like old times, hinting at a deeper life decision caused by Elton's suicide attempt. For the rest of the movie, he's not shown drinking, and he tries to encourage Elton to get the help he needs.
- Elton is knee-deep in his many addictions by the end of the movie, and is going through a severe emotional downward spiral after Bernie walks out on him at dinner. After he nearly overdoses that same night and is then expected to have a concert immediately after, he shakily goes for his cocaine to try and calm himself down...only to find himself with a nosebleed. After staring himself down in the mirror and contemplating his situation through the lyrics of "Goodbye Yellow Brick Road"... he marches out of the venue, still in costume, and takes a cab directly to rehab — circling back to the start of the movie where he first arrives in rehab in said costume.
Literature
- Adrian Mole: Played for laughs in Cappuccino Years; Adrian gets through vast amounts of Opal Fruits sweets, buying them in bulk, and when he runs out, having to brave the streets of central London late at night, noting that within minutes, he is offered lesbian sex, heroin, and a Rolex watch, but an innocent packet of Opal Fruits takes him half an hour to track down. Adrian wonders if they have a G-Rated Drug in them to make them addictive, and Ivan Braithwaite says to him, "Don't you think you are getting dependent on Opal Fruits?"
- Never Flinch: Trig, the Serial Killer that is half of the novels' Big Bad Ensemble, used to be an alcoholic. One night, he got pulled over by a cop while driving drunk, but got off with a stern warning since he was almost home already. The realization of how close he came to getting a DUI registration and potentially a criminal record made him seek out Alcoholics Anonymous and get help to stay sober.
- The Stormlight Archive:
- In Oathbringer, we get several flashbacks from the perspective of Dalinar Kholin. Dalinar realizes that his habit of drinking to forget what he's done has gotten out of control when one of his sons brings him a bottle of wine as he destroys his room to find even a drop of alcohol, forcing him to admit that his brother isn't hiding the alcohol: he's simply drunk all of it. Moreover, it's not even an effective coping mechanism, as he's reached the point where he's convinced that his children hate them, and this moment forces him to realize they don't, and never did. Unfortunately, this doesn't stop him from drinking, and as we know he only stops after his brother dies while he's too drunk to help; more specifically, by having his most traumatic memories erased so that he doesn't feel the need to drink anymore.
- The same book has him realizing that the Thrill, a crazed bloodlust that all Alethi feel on the battlefield, is even more addictive than alcohol. Moreover, he realizes he never really overcame it; the Thrill itself had changed countries, and when he starts to feel it again he's so frightened of hurting someone that he goes back to alcohol to distract himself. Sadly, the vast majority of Alethi never really comprehend how addicted they are to the Thrill, as it's shaped their entire culture into a bunch of war-glorifying Blood Knights who enjoy killing so much they don't even realize that War Is Hell.
Live-Action TV
- Babylon 5:
- By "Interludes and Examinations", Dr. Franklin's slowly-building abuse of prescription stimulants draws the attention of Garibaldi, who's no stranger to addiction. After brushing off Garibaldi's attempt at an intervention, Franklin has his blood levels tested, and can no longer deny he's become addicted.
- Several episodes before that, "Ceremonies of Light and Dark", as part of the Minbari rebirth ceremony for which he's supposed to tell someone a secret he's never told anyone before, he tells Delenn, "I think I have a problem," but doesn't say any more, which lends credence to Garibaldi's assertion that he knew on some level but was in denial until the results left no room for argument.
- The Big Bang Theory: Played for laughs in "The Barbarian Sublimation"; after an emotionally-struggling Penny gets addicted to the Massively Multiplayer Online Role-Playing Game Age of Conan, annoying Sheldon with questions on how to level up in the middle of the night and letting herself go, Sheldon attempts to snap her out of it by setting her up with a guy, but she just ignores him. It takes Penny agreeing to do a game quest (in other words, a date) with Howard for her to realize she needs help, throwing her laptop away from her. By the next episode, she's back to normal.
- Family Law (2021): In the fourth season, after Abby's relationship with Ben falls apart because of his drinking, she wonders how she could have missed the signs that he was still an alcoholic when she herself is a recovering alcoholic. She also realizes that she is already making eyes at Kieron, the contractor renovating her new office. She realizes that she's using relationships as a substitute for alcohol, and decides that she needs to get used to being alone for a while if she's really committed to getting clean from her addictive behaviors.
- Feel Good: Mae relapses with the James Bond-obsessed guy from their Narcotics Anonymous group and they spend a night doing lines, but when Mae tries to make romantic moves towards the guy, he turns away, and says he has to call someone, who turns out to be His Sponsor. Mae keeps thinking he's called a dealer for more coke until the sponsor starts berating her, which turns out to be her wakeup call.
- House: Dr. House learned he was addicted to pills while trying to disprove Wilson's assertion that he was and quitting them; the withdrawal was so painful that he ended up smashing his own hand to alleviate it. He was forced to concede afterwards that he was physically addicted, although he continued to deny that he had a problem.
- The Golden Girls had this occur twice in Compressed Vice episodes:
- In "High Anxiety", the usually sweet-natured Rose becomes grouchy and temperamental, and the other Girls discover that she's secretly been taking prescription painkillers for thirty years and has become addicted to them. Rose claims that she's not dependent, but Dorothy, Blanche, and Sophia help her admit that she does have a problem, and the episode ends with her spending a month in a detox program in the hospital and remarking that she'll deal with her addiction one day at a time from now on.
- In "All Bets Are Off", it's revealed that Dorothy had a serious gambling addiction in the past—to the point of nearly losing her house to loan sharks—and has worked to avoid temptation ever since. Unfortunately, when she accompanies Rose on a trip to the local horse races, the addiction comes roaring back and she ends up back in debt. In this case, Rose, of all people, pulls off a Batman Gambit to get Dorothy to admit she needs help: she offers Dorothy her bank card and tells her to borrow as much as she wants, and Dorothy gets so overwhelmed by her (seeming) naivete and willingness to trust her that she reveals her true intentions:
Dorothy: Don't you see? I am stealing your money!
Rose: I know, Dorothy.
(a Beat as Dorothy stares at Rose)
Rose: But I was hoping you'd have a hard time taking advantage of somebody who cares about you as much as I do.
- Law & Order: Special Victims Unit: In "Hammered", the killer is a recovering alcoholic who killed a woman during a relapse. The detectives find a former employee of his that he sexually assaulted. He admitted that assaulting her was what made him realize he needed to quit drinking. He felt so guilty that he went cold turkey, and even though he felt like the withdrawal symptoms would kill him he powered through it.
- M*A*S*H (1972): In "Bottoms Up", an old friend of Margaret's, Captain Helen Whitfield, is revealed to be a heavy drinker. Whitfield vehemently denies that she has a drinking problem, until she tries to quit cold turkey and has an attack of delirium tremensnote in the mess tent. The episode tag has Margaret reading a letter from Whitfield, who is back stateside and now attending a support group for recovering alcoholics.
- Mom: Christy Plunkett is already struggling to stay sober but over the course of the series, she develops other addictions that affect her social life, namely her relationships with her friends. Said new addictions include gambling and smoking. Naturally, Christy doesn't want to admit that she has another addiction, as she feels it will mean that she is "more broken" than she already knows she is. In regard to her gambling addiction, it took a harsh tongue-lashing then counsel from her mother to get her accept it. More humorously, in regards to Christy's smoking addiction later on, her friends attempted to get her to quit through not-so-subtle suggestions but of course she refuses. Christy only truly made an effort to quit when she saw the monthly expenses to support her addiction but even then it remained a struggle for her.
- Saved by the Bell: In one episode, Jessie gets addicted to caffeine pills and has a breakdown that turns heartbreaking when she goes from pretending to be normal to terrified at what's happened to her.
Music
- Subverted in "What About Mouthwash?" by Trevor Moore; he and his friend become addicted to cheap, legal ways of getting intoxicated, such as drinking mouthwash or huffing paint. When a cop pulls him over and sees his mouth coated in gold paint, the cop is so overcome by pity at seeing the sad and disturbing levels of dependency that he silently lets him go. Trevor gets quiet for a moment and sits in his car, thinking about what just happened... and then cheerfully declares that this is yet another benefit of the mouthwash strategy, because the cops leave you alone.
Theatre
- We Are the Tigers: "Before the Breakdown (Reprise)" has alcoholic Farrah dump the contents of her flask down the toilet, deciding to try to get better after making a total mess of the annual cheerleading sleepover and having a heart-to-heart with Reese. She is murdered immediately after, ironically because the killer thought she was long past helping, so the realization was unfortunately short-lived.
Webcomics
- In this Cyanide and Happiness comic, Rob's friends stage an intervention for him because he's addicted to dubstep. When Rob insists that he only listens to good dubstep, his friend points out that he listens to enough dubstep to have two categories for it — causing the former to fall to his knees and cry.
Web Videos
- Real-Time Fandub: Played for Laughs in the Shadow the Hedgehog dub; after Eggman brags about winning $700 at the poker table after losing $300,000, he tells Shadow, "Please don't form a gambling addiction. Don't be like me. It's over for me."
Western Animation
- BoJack Horseman: In "The Stopped Show", Diane tells BoJack that he has to start taking responsibility for himself. BoJack complains that he doesn't know how and instinctively goes to pop a few painkillers. This leads to a somber moment of clarity and BoJack decides to check himself into rehab.
- Bump in the Night: In "Sock It to Me", Mr. Bumpy is forced to admit he might be addicted to eating socks after he eats one sock too many, causing him to explode and blow off all his limbs.
- Family Guy: In "Baking Bad", Stewie gets addicted to cough syrup, culminating in a moment when he rides his tricycle drunk and crashes into another boy. Brian stages an intervention, and when he points out that Stewie almost killed someone, he breaks down in tears.
Stewie: Oh, Brian, who am I?! I don't have a cough, and my sinuses are remarkably wide open — but I have a problem!
Brian: Good. Admitting it is the first step. - Hey Arnold!: Chocolate Boy has one in the episode about his obsession with chocolate, which is mostly Played for Laughs throughout the series; that definitely isn't the case here. Wolfgang and his fifth-grade gang of bullies force Chocolate Boy to do all manner of humiliating things—pretending to be a dog and dancing like a monkey among them—just for a few bites of dessert. As he's digging in the trash for more sweets, Chocolate Boy catches a glimpse of himself in a mirror and realizes just how bad his addiction has become, and he tearfully begs Arnold to help him kick the habit.
- Miraculous Ladybug: In "Simpleman", after the titular villain temporarily disables her capacity for complex thinking while she's in the middle of yet another Zany Scheme to woo Adrien, Marinette actually has an epiphany about the fact that she has a Complexity Addiction and that it’s getting in the way of her attempts to pursue Adrien, and that she should just ask him out like a normal person. Unfortunately, as there is a villain on the loose, Marinette has to deal with Simpleman first. After Simpleman is de-akumatized and Marinette goes back to normal, she no longer has the nerve to ask Adrien out. She then confesses to Tikki that she makes over-complicated plans which go nowhere instead of simply asking Adrien out because she’s too scared he’ll reject her.
- The Simpsons:
- In "$pringfield (or, How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love Legalized Gambling)", Marge develops a gambling addiction and starts spending more time at Mr. Burns' casino than at home. It's only when Homer tells her that she broke her promise to help Lisa with her school project, after what seems to be days of pulling the slot lever nonstop, does she realize she's become a full-blown addict... something Homer spends the rest of the episode mocking her for.
- In "I Am Furious (Yellow)", Homer finds out that Bart made an Internet cartoon about his frequent temper tantrums. When the family admits that he does get angry a lot, Homer says he's just "passionate" until Marge points out that he's punching the cat as they're speaking.
Homer: Oh my God, you're right! I'm a rageaholic! [sobs] I just can't live without rage-ahol!
Lisa: Congratulations, Dad. The first step is admitting it.
Homer: Is it also the last step?
Lisa: No, the last step is quitting.
Homer: [groans] - Parodied with Ned Flanders in "Duffless", who has been going to AA for four thousand daysnote after his first and last Blueberry Schnapps, under the influence of which he called Ann Landers "a boring old biddy".
Ned: I was more animal than man!