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Abandon Shipping

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Abandon Shipping is a fandom trope referring to when an event, or series of events, leads to a Shipping fandom to abandon a pairing en masse, irrespective of the ongoing canon or non-canon status of the pairing in the work.

Some Shippers are die-hard. They'll go through everything; Fire, Ice, Lightning, nuclear explosions, you name it, but they're still sticking by their One True Pairing no matter what. Even death is only a minor setback, thanks to the Alternate Timeline.

Then there are the other types who, when a new plot development occurs and changes what we knew about one of these characters, leap off the ship and swim for shore (or, most likely in this metaphor, towards another boat) without even bothering to grab a lifejacket. Maybe it's because a character had a deep dark secret or did something terrible that severely makes people question their ability to even be in a relationship. Maybe they're really siblings, otherwise blood-related, or maybe there's some sort of other aspect to their relationship that suddenly Squicks people. Maybe it is revealed a character has an Incompatible Orientation. Some will even drop a pairing because the fans are rabid. Or maybe shippers have just plain lost interest, with a pairing not suddenly being disliked, but rather another pairing suddenly becoming much more appealing. Whatever the case, when it suddenly seems like the former Shippers have dropped off the face of the Earth, they have Abandoned Ship.

There are also notable subversions, though. What would seem like a cause to Abandon Shipping to any outside observer not only doesn't have that effect but actually makes the Shippers fight harder for it. This is especially the case where theories about who will end up with who are Jossed or declared invalid by Word of God. And of course, there are those who are into more fringe pairings like Incest Yay Shipping, for whom such revelations might endear those fans to the pairing even more. Also take note of those within Shipping fandom for which shipping isn't serious business, and simply have fun shipping for shipping's sake. This group never cared about the actual viability of their pairing to begin with, so unless they lose interest on their own, they'll remain on that ship regardless of what comes.

See Ship Sinking for when the creators of a work introduce something into the canon of a work that is explicitly intended to stop the development of a pairing, to break up a pairing, or to destroy any likelihood of that pairing becoming canon. Ship Sinking is not at all guaranteed to cause Abandon Shipping though. Shipping Bed Death is when this occurs because the shippers got their wish and then found their dream wasn't what it was cracked up to be.

Compare No Yay, which can lead to this if it's not there one moment and then shows up with little warning in the next.

Not to Be Confused with Abandon Ship, which was this trope's previous name (which is now used for describing abandoning a boat).

Please don't use this page as a way of complaining about pairings you don't like. While no citations are needed, any instances of Abandon Shipping should be verifiable through observation of fanworks and fan communities and not just hearsay.


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    Comic Books 
  • Ironically, for a run that was entirely based on their development as a couple, Batman (Tom King) ended up doing this to Bruce/Selina, and arguably for Bruce and shipping in general. This is mainly due to Bruce's behavior after Selina ditched him at the altar, where he started acting like an Unintentionally Unsympathetic Jerkass that abused the members of his family in frankly unforgivable ways as a way of handling his grief. This got him labeled as toxic, and the general idea was that if he was going to treat his kids like this when faced with a personal loss, then Selina was right to leave him, because what would stop him from doing the same with her eventually? The same process applied to other ships with Bruce, and many now seem to think that Bruce shouldn't be in a romantic relationship with anyone until he resolves his issues.
  • ElfQuest: Ember hooked up with Mender once she reached puberty. The fandom generally liked him until he went off to fight in the war and was replaced by Ember's second love interest, Teir - who came literally out of nowhere. Now, the original authors and the guest artists/writers alike all collectively prefer Teir over Mender now... the fandom, predictably, is much more split on the subject, evenly between forgetting Mender even existed, and seeing Teir as an abhorrent Creator's Pet.
  • The Transformers: More than Meets the Eye: A lot of people stopped shipping Brainstorm×Perceptor and Brainstorm×Nautica after it was revealed Brainstorm was a Decepticon spy. This got reversed when it was made clear he's an Anti-Villain and Decepticon In Name Only who was trying to stop the war at the cost of his own existence.

    Films — Animation 
  • Barbie: Princess Charm School: It's easy for viewers to ship Blair/Delancy at first, since Delancy's initial Alpha Bitch antagonism of Blair turning to eventual friendship with her provides easy fodder for it. It also helps that Blair's actual love interest, Prince Nicholas, is a Flat Character who barely appears. That being said, many fans were immediately turned off of the idea of shipping the girls by the ending revelation that Delancy is Blair's cousin, due to Blair being Princess Sophia and thus the niece of Delancy's mother, Dame Devin.
  • After the release of The Book of Life, a lot of fans speculated that Manolo Sanchez’s great grandmother Anita was the wife of one of his late ancestors, Jorge. They all quickly jumped ship once Word of God revealed that they were actually siblings.
  • Prior to the release of Frozen there was a good amount of speculation whether Kristoff or Hans would be Anna or Elsa's love interest. Many shippers understandably shipped Anna with the handsome Hans. The film spectacularly killed it off at the end, with Hans turning out to be Evil All Along and revealing to a dying Anna that he had lied about loving Anna and was just after the throne. Nevertheless, that killed the ship for most fans. Oddly enough, Hans and Elsa are still an extremely popular ship despite them having no positive interactions and the fact Hans had always planned on killing Elsa. He left her sister to die and would have killed Elsa if not for Anna doing a Heroic Sacrifice. This is largely because of Foe Yay Shipping and Hans being the only other prominent (and conventionally attractive) male human in the film besides Kristoff.
  • Frozen II:
    • When the first trailer was released, it included footage of an unidentified female character. Some people got excited about the possibility of having a female character to ship Elsa with outside of Anna, but a portion stopped when it was pointed out that the girl appeared a lot younger than Elsa, although some speculated it was a flashback and that the girl would be revealed to be around Elsa's age later. But this trope then came into full force when the movie revealed that while it was a flashback, the girl was Anna and Elsa's mother. It helps that the movie did give Elsa a present-day female character for fans to ship her with in the form of Honeymaren.
    • The introduction of Honeymaren has led many fans to drop the infamous Elsa/Anna pairing in favor of Elsa/Homeymaren. With Honeymaren being introduced and having Ho Yay with Elsa, on top of Anna becoming married to Kristoff, many fans saw no reason to continue shipping Elsa/Anna when Elsa has a less problematic option (though some still do regardless).
    • People shipped Honeymaren and Ryder until it was revealed that they're siblings.
  • Inside Out 2: As soon as the second trailer revealed that Riley would awkwardly try to get closer to Val, a girl she admires, fans already started shipping the two. However, most stopped once it was revealed that Val is actually 18 years old, while Riley had just turned 13. Those who do continue to ship them usually treat it as strictly a one-sided crush on Riley's part.
  • Prior to the release of Ruby Gillman, Teenage Kraken, Ruby/Chelsea was a popular ship due to their contrasting personalities and their prep/nerd dynamic. The theory that the trailers were deliberately misleading people into believing that Chelsea and the Mermaids were conventionally evil, only to pull out a Bait-and-Switch and reveal the conflict is more nuanced, added fuel to the shipping. Indeed, it had the potential for interesting scenarios - such as a story about Star-Crossed Lovers who are part of two warring sides, or an antagonist who would pretend to get close to the heroine only to become the mask and get a redemption. However, many fans would immediately jump off the pairing after the film came out and revealed that Chelsea was actually the adult Queen Nerissa in disguise, therefore a lot older than Ruby, as well as irredeemably evil. However, it regained popularity once it's revealed that in the original draft, Chelsea and Nerissa were indeed supposed to be two different character, with Chelsea's motivation being avenging her mother's death, leading many fans to ignore the plot twist altogether in favor of the original draft.
  • The Super Mario Galaxy Movie: The reveal that Peach and Rosalina are sisters would cause many shippers to drop the Peach/Rosalina pairing, which had been a semi-popular femslash ship in the Mario fandom prior to the film (despite their lack of interactions in the games). This extended to fans not shipping their game counterparts anymore afterwards, as while the films are an Alternate Continuity from the Super Mario Bros. games and Peach and Rosalina's relationship remains unclear in the games, the fact that they're related in an official work, regardless of its (non-)canonicity to the games, has made many too uncomfortable to entertain the ship in any iteration.
  • Early on, when all the fandom knew of Vanellope was her name, the Wreck-It Ralph fanbase shipped her with Ralph. As it turns out, Vanellope is a cute little nine year old girl. The fanbase immediately stopped shipping them and instead preferred a big brother-little sister, or even father-daughter, friendship.

    Films — Live-Action 
  • Harry Potter: Although readers of the books were already clued in by the time the first film came out, the decision to pair Ron and Hermione off (which started to become evident in the third film) caught those who assumed Harry and Hermione were destined for shipping a little off guard. Not that this was viewed as a serious problem by some shippers.
  • There was a subset of Knives Out fans who shipped Blanc and Marta together, but the reveal in Glass Onion that Blanc was gay and married to a man made support for the pairing practically disappear altogether, with many of those fans instead preferring to depict their relationship as the loving but firmly platonic one that was established in Knives Out.
  • Marvel Cinematic Universe:
    • Steve/Tony used to be the most popular pairing in the MCU, mainly due to its longstanding comics fandom. However, supporters of the ship slowly abandoned it over the course of Phase 2, mainly due to a lack of interaction and Steve developing more meaningful relationships with other characters. This was mainly because of Captain America: The Winter Soldier, where Steve's relationship with his best friend Bucky Barnes/The Winter Soldier had so much Ho Yay that it outright eclipsed any interaction he had with Sharon Carter, his official love interest, and making Bucky look like he was Steve's love interest (not at all helped by Sharon being Demoted to Extra in the film). His chemistry with Sam Wilson and Natasha did not help either. This eventually reached a fever pitch with Captain America: Civil War, where it was made clear that, when it came down to it, Steve would choose Bucky over Tony. Steve/Tony took a huge hit, and while still a major popular ship, the film has more-or-less cemented Steve/Bucky as the Fan-Preferred Couple of the MCU, as it's all but been established that Bucky is the most important person in Steve's life and the person he'd do anything for.
    • A lot of Clint ships were abandoned after Avengers: Age of Ultron, where it was revealed that he's happily married with two kids and a third on the way.
    • Likewise, a lot of people abandoned all shipping of Thor in general after the Love Triangle mess between him, Sif, and Jane in Thor: The Dark World. The once-huge Thor/Loki ship also became moribund after the one-two punch of Avengers: Infinity War killing off Loki and Avengers: Endgame not bringing him back and also showing that Thor had grown fat in the meantime.
    • Many people thought that T'Challa and Killmonger's interactions in the trailers for Black Panther had excellent Foe Yay Shipping potential, not hurt by comparisons of their relationship to Xavier and Magneto. Then the movie came out, and while it certainly wasn't enough to stop everyone, they were revealed to be first cousins.
    • Avengers: Endgame caused a lot of people to abandon all Steve ships after Steve traveling back in time to the forties to grow old with Peggy made it nigh-impossible to pair him up with anyone other than Peggy without going hard into Alternate Universe Fic territory. Steve's most popular shipping options of Tony and Bucky respectively being Killed Off for Real and staying behind in the modern day in the same film didn't help.
    • Thunderbolts*: Many people dropped shipping Yelena/Bucky in favor of Yelena/Bob due to the many emotional moments the two share.
  • Star Wars: The revelation in Return of the Jedi that Luke and Leia were siblings did kill off the idea of them as a couple... for a while. Since then many grown-up fans have resumed shipping them. This happening in the past is why some people were hesitant to start supporting Kylo/Rey from The Force Awakens, who have some interesting interactions in the film. Some were under the impression that Rey might be Kylo's sister or cousin due to the popular theory that she was in some way related to the Skywalker family (either through Han/Leia or Luke); however, once the next movies revealed it was not the case, more people ended up boarding the 'Reylo' ship.

    Literature 
  • The Celestial Kingdom: Some fans shipped Xingyin with Wenzhi, but quickly stopped after Wenzhi kidnapped Xingyin, stole the dragon pearls that she earned, and sealed her magic, revealing himself to be a prince from the Demon Realm in the process.
  • A Court of Thorns and Roses:
    • Within the fandom, you'd be hard-pressed to find any remaining Tamlin/Feyre shippers following A Court of Mist and Fury, especially after Tamlin allies with the King of Hybern to try and get Feyre back, when his controlling and entitled behavior drove her away.
    • When the second book came out many people agreed with Feyre that Mor and Azriel would make a cute couple and looked forward to seeing how it would pan out. However, after Mor stated definitively in the third book that she wasn't romantically interested in Azriel and actually prefers women, a lot of shippers drifted away from the pairing; Azriel is now primarily shipped with Elain, with whom he appears to share a mutual attraction, or Gwyn, whom he also gets mutual Ship Tease with.
    • After A Court of Silver Flames, many readers are starting to jump ship with Rhysand/Feyre, as Rhysand increasingly shows characteristics of being a groomer and abusive partner (intentionally or not). In Silver Flames Rhysand's actions are scarily similar to Tamlin's in A Court of Mist and Fury, such as locking Feyre up without her consent, withholding information from her because he thinks she's not strong enough to handle it (even when said information is about keeping her alive) and making decisions regarding her well-being without consulting with her. He also flaunts Feyre before his male peers and makes disgusting comments about their sex life but grows irrationally angry if she dares to speak to another man. Some readers have further noted that although Rhysand acts like she's on equal footing with him politically, he appears to be the one calling the shots. The author goes through leaps trying to prove they're the superior ship but for many readers it's getting harder not to see their relationship as being just as abusive and toxic as Tamlin/Feyre, if not more so.
    • Feyre/Lucien had a decently-sized following after the first book, continuing into the second book. By the end of the second book though, most shippers realized it was never going to happen because it's made clear Feyre and Rhysand were the Official Couple of the series; many remaining hold-outs were subsequently turned off the ship due to Feyre's rather poor treatment of Lucien in the third book, including tricking Tamlin into believing they were having an affair to manipulate him (arguably taking advantage of Lucien's trauma in the process).
  • The Harry Potter fandom has several examples:
  • The Heroes of Olympus: After Nico came out as gay in The House Of Hades, all heterosexual ships involving him were promptly abandoned.
  • The Hunger Games: The Katniss/Gale ship was pretty much torpedoed in Mockingjay when Katniss first decides that since she can't have Peeta she wants to die, not considering Gale an option, and her sister Prim later gets killed in a trap designed by Gale.
  • Song of the Lioness has an example within the story itself. Tamora Pierce realized that her planned ending of Alanna marrying Prince Jonathan wasn't really what Alanna wanted (to the point that Alanna forced Pierce to rewrite it) and wrote them breaking up after Jonathan proposed to her and he displayed an incredibly Entitled to Have You attitude. Instead, Pierce paired Alanna off with her Gentleman Thief friend George Cooper and introduced Rebellious Princess Thayet for Jonathan.
  • Warrior Cats:
    • Many shippers abandoned Whitestorm/Bluestar when it was revealed that he was her nephew. The ship was even dubbed 'Denialshipping'.
    • Similarly, Hollyleaf/Breezepelt shippers jumped ship after it was revealed the two characters were half-siblings. Well, SOME people jumped ship.
    • Bramblestar/Squirrelflight, which was once very popular, has since fallen out of favor with many fans in recent years due to their lack of proper communication, relationship drama, and Official Couple Ordeal Syndrome. Additionally, more fans have started seeing their relationship as abusive or toxic, and simply want them to split up.

    Tabletop Games 
  • In Magic: The Gathering, the character of Tamiyo was introduced in the original Innistrad block with little to nothing known about her. All that was really known was that she was a blue-aligned Planeswalker who was researching Innistrad's moon. It became popular to pair her up with Jace, simply due to her being, at the time, the only other monoblue Planeswalker who wasn't evil. However, when the second Innistrad block came around, she was revealed to be a Happily Married mother of three, thoroughly sinking the ship.

    Visual Novels 
  • Ace Attorney:
    • In Apollo Justice: Ace Attorney, Trucy and Apollo tend to gather shippers early on in the game due to their quirky antics and how they team up to solve cases. However, at the very end of the game it is revealed that Trucy and Apollo are in fact half-siblings, thus causing many fans to reject the pairing. To add insult to injury, there's also the fact that Trucy and Apollo are never seen learning the truth of their heritage, though a scene in the credits of Spirit of Justice indicates they will soon be told of it.
    • In Phoenix Wright: Ace Attorney – Dual Destinies, the brooding convict prosecutor Simon Blackquill and the energetic, ditzy detective Bobby Fulbright have an Odd Couple dynamic, with Simon gradually warming up to Fulbright over time, that appeals to many slash fans as an Opposites Attract pairing. However, most of these fans stop shipping them after the reveal in the final case that Fulbright is actually a false identity of the Phantom, a serial killer responsible for the murder of Metis Cykes, Simon's mentor and Athena's mother.
  • Danganronpa V3: Killing Harmony is a massive example. Due to the exact characterization and relationships between characters being unclear before the release of the game, a lot of ships sprung purely built on Gotta Ship 'Em All mentality. When the game came out and revealed many things fans believed were incorrect, there was a colossal exodus of shipping. Specific examples include Rantaro/Kokichi and Kaede/Maki, both of which didn't interact as much in canon as the official art and screenshots implied (partly because Rantaro and Kaede die in the first chapter), as well as Kokichi/Himiko and Kokichi/Keebo, both had extremely unpleasant canon interactions, with Keebo and Himiko vocally hating Oma.
  • Zero Escape: One of the more popular ships from Virtue's Last Reward, Sigma/Phi, was thoroughly abandoned following the reveal in Zero Time Dilemma that Phi is Sigma's daughter.

    Web Animation 
  • Helluva Boss
    • As Season 2 progressed and highlighted just how toxic their relationship is on both ends, a significant number of viewers who once shipped Blitzo and Stolas jumped ship. This was especially the case after the episodes "Full Moon" and "Apology Tour", which seemed to emphasize everything wrong with the pairing: the former temporarily sunk the ship and highlighted how much Blitzo and Stolas's Unequal Pairing and own neurosis' taints their relationship, while the latter highlighted said neurosis (Stolas is too In Love with Love, on top of boasting a lack of self-awareness and a streak of Innocently Insensitive behavior towards Blitzo, while Blitzo's uncertainty surrounding his feelings for Stolas is mired in a history of self-destructive grief and self-loathing behavior that has already hurt dozens of past romantic partners). As such, come the end of the season, this group of fans were dismayed that Blitzo and Stolas didn't remain broken up, wishing they either remained separated or at least agreed to be only friends, so they could instead focus on self-improvement.
    • Some viewers initially shipped Loona and Octavia due to their similar aesthetic of being goths with complicated relationships with their fathers. However, a lot of people eventually stopped shipping them for two main reasons; their dads and their ages. In regards to the former, If Blitzo and Stolas get married someday, it would make them step-sisters. In regards to the latter, Octavia is by most accounts a minor (17), while Loona is an adult (22); while the significance of such an age gap at this time is iffy, it isn't helped by the apparent differences in emotional maturity between the two, as while Loona can still behave like an aloof teen, she is still shown to be far more mature than Octavia. This lead to most viewers starting to view them as having an older sister/younger sister dynamic instead, and the ship was effectively sunk for good once Word of God revealed that Octavia is asexual.
  • Red vs. Blue: During seasons 9 and 10, Agent Carolina had three major pairings associated with her: York/Carolina (which was somewhat canon), Director/Carolina, and Tex/Carolina. The last episode of Season 10 reveals that the Director is her father, and thus Tex is an AI based on her father's memory of her mother. A mass exodus from both those ships ensued.
  • RWBY:
    • Between the release of the trailers and of the first actual episode Ruby/Yang was somewhat popular due to a lack of information; its popularity dropped dramatically when it was revealed that Ruby's use of "sis" to refer to Yang wasn't simply an endearment towards a close friend, and they are really are half-sisters. The ship soon gained the nickname "Enabler" in the fandom, as a pointed suggestion that people who kept the ship going were "enabling" unhealthy behaviour.
    • The show had the potential pairing between Blake Belladonna and her former White Fang partner and leader Adam Taurus. Even though Adam hadn't been in the series outside of the "Black" trailer, people still held a candle for this pairing at the time and saw a future where they could reconcile. That ship sank quickly come Vol. 3, Episode 11 "Heroes and Monsters", when he finally appears and proceeds to go full Yandere on Blake, vowing to destroy everything she holds dear, and starts by stabbing Blake in the stomach, before going on to lop off Yang Xiao Long's arm and trying to decapitate Blake as she shields Yang from further harm. This intensifies in the following season, where despite not appearing on-screen himself, we see that the aforementioned event gave Yang PTSD, learn he was physically abusive towards Blake prior to her abandoning him, discover has been attempting to get the current Supreme Leader of the White Fang to join the villain cabal, and when that fails, plans her death and usurpation so he can launch a full-blown terrorist campaign. In short, fans went from thinking Adam would be a Broken Bird Woobie to discovering that he was actually a vile jerkass in the span of a year despite not being in the show. It's telling that Blake/Adam ship quickly changed its name from Tauradonna to Animal Abuse.

    Web Comics 
  • In Drowtales:
  • The Girl Genius fandom had a variant, in that shippers didn't ditch a pairing due to one of the characters doing something unconscionable, but simply because a better one showed up. When Tarvek and Bangladesh interacted, Bang's schoolgirl glee at seeing Tarvek again earned the pairing a lot of fans. Two days later, Bang met Vole, and everyone immediately jumped to that ship. To quote one of the posters on our own forums: "I support this ship. I support this ship so much it will not displace water. I support this ship so much it will be a skyship."
  • Homestuck:
    • When it was revealed that Dave and Rose as well as John and Jade are siblings, the ships lost all steam with anyone who wasn't a fan of incest.
    • John has directly stated he's not interested in men and later said he wasn't interested in any romance at all, which didn't particularly stop John/Karkat or John/Dave shippers back in 2010. As the story went on however, Dave and Karkat rose in popularity as the Fan-Preferred Couple before eventually becoming one of the most popular Official Couples. This combined with John's Ship Tease with Terezi and Roxy has caused ships like John/Karkat and John/Dave to mostly fade into the annals of Homestuck shipping history.
  • If you look in the Webtoon comments of the early chapters of The Little Trashmaid, you'll see quite a few people admit to shipping Ricky and Tidy at that point in time. Then came the one-two punch of Ricky telling Tidy about his crush on Spencer (with her deciding to play Shipper on Deck for them) and Word of God stating that Ricky was 17 and Tidy was 12. Understandably, many of those comments have since been edited to say that they no longer shipped them.
  • Rain (2010):
    • Most people who shipped Rain and Gavin jumped off once Rain figured out she’s sapphic. Ana being introduced as Gavin’s eventual love interest also made more readers abandon the ship.
    • Rain x Maria shippers also jumped off once Chanel was introduced and her and Maria became a couple.
  • Stand Still, Stay Silent:
    • Some people had second thoughts about the Emil/Lalli pairing because they felt that Lalli's means of getting Emil out of the influence of the troll spirit's Compelling Voice was unnecessarily aggressive and highlighted the unhealthy parts of their interaction.
    • An unusual case in this one: it's noted the amount of Reynir/Tuuri fics dropped significantly after the developments of Chapters 13 and 14 where Tuuri is bitten by a troll and is separated from Reynir in case she was infected by the rash so she didn't pass it to him hindered what could be done in canon-compliant fics, which allowed alternate pairings like Sigrun/Tuuri and Reynir/Onni to flourish in their stead, giving the impression that this happened to the Reynir/Tuuri pairing.

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  • Critical Role once saw a decent amount of shipping-related fanart and fanfiction involving Caduceus Clay, one of the party's clerics in the second campaign. However, later on in the campaign, it's revealed that Caduceus is in-canon both asexual and aromantic, so any shipping involving him naturally died down after that.
  • Meme House: Madeline/Bulk Bogan was a popular ship with the Twitch Chat. This ended in Part 7 after she stabbed Bulk to death.
  • MiraRae’s Royal Family: Kaleo and Alice May were a reasonably possible ship until Kaleo went Yandere and attacked Caspian.

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