To sketch the argument we appeal to previous work on the tree function
and random mapping statistics, namely the
We get for the former
$$T(z) = 1 -\sqrt{2} \sqrt{1-ez}
+ {\frac{2}{3}} (1-ez)
-\frac{11 \sqrt{2}}{36} (1-ez)^{3/2}
+ {\frac{43}{135}} (1-ez)^2
\\ -\frac{769 \sqrt{2}}{4320} (1-ez)^{5/2}
+ {\frac{1768}{8505}} (1-ez)^3
- \frac{680863 \sqrt{2}}{5443200} (1-ez)^{7/2}
+ \cdots$$
and the latter
$$H(z) = \frac{T(z)+T(z)^2}{(1-T(z))^4}.$$
This cumulative EGF gives precisely the statistic we are trying to
compute.
Substitute the first into the second to get
$$\frac{1}{2 (1-ez)^{2}}
-\frac{\sqrt{2}}{12 (1-ez)^{3/2}}
-\frac{1}{2 (1-ez)}
+\frac{133 \sqrt{2}}{2160 \sqrt{1-ez}}
\\ +\frac{107}{3240}
-\frac{157 \sqrt{2}\, \sqrt{1-ez}}{120960}
+\cdots.$$
We get from the dominant asymptotic (first term)
$$\frac{1}{2} \frac{n!}{n^n} [z^n] \frac{1}{(1-ez)^2}
= \frac{1}{2} \frac{n!}{n^n} (n+1) \exp(n).$$
Using Stirling this becomes
$$\frac{1}{2} (n+1) \exp(n) \frac{1}{n^n}
\frac{n^n}{\exp(n)} \sqrt{2\pi n}
= \frac{1}{2} (n+1) \sqrt{2\pi n}.$$
We are asking for cycle size and tail length starting
from node one. The EGF computes the statistic for all
nodes, all mappings. By symmetry and working with grand
averages we may divide by $n$ to get the value for node
one as none of the nodes are distinguished in any
way. We also need to add one to account for the last
step hitting a node that we have seen before. (This is
one more than the count of the nodes on the cycle and
those on the tail where the tail length does not
include the node that is shared with the cycle.)
Putting it all together we obtain
$$1 + \frac{1}{2} \left( 1 + \frac{1}{n} \right) \sqrt{2\pi n}
\sim 1 + \sqrt{\frac{\pi n}{2}}.$$
The values from the cumulative EGF are
$$1, 12, 153, 2272, 39225, 776736, 17398969,
\\ 435538944, 12058401393, 366021568000, \ldots$$
We get from the second term
$$-\frac{\sqrt{2}}{12} \exp(n) {n+1/2\choose n}
= -\frac{\sqrt{2}}{12} \exp(n) {n-(-3/2)-1\choose n}
\sim -\frac{\sqrt{2}}{12} \exp(n) \frac{\sqrt{n}}{\Gamma(3/2)}.$$
With Stirling and scaling by $n!/n^n$ this makes for a contribution of
$$-\frac{\sqrt{2}}{12} n \frac{\sqrt{2\pi}}{\sqrt{\pi}/2}
= -\frac{1}{3} n.$$
The third term is easy and we get on scaling again
$$- \frac{1}{2}\sqrt{2\pi n}.$$
Collecting the three we find for the cumulative statistic
$$\frac{1}{2} n \sqrt{2\pi n} - \frac{1}{3}n
+ \cdots.$$
Commentary. Here the tail length does not refer to
the size of the tree attached at a node that is not on
a cycle but rather the nodes on the path from a node to
its eventual cycle. The node where it is attached to
the cycle is also the repeat node that we see in the
iterates of the map, which are sets of cycles of trees.